Women talk about being used and taken advantage of by men. As I pondered more I thought ‘being used’ is only a state of mind. We always have control and a choice. It is easy to blame the other person than to accept responsibility of our own actions.
We may not always make the best decision, but it is best to accept that you did wrong, learn from the experience and then move on.
When it comes to women and sex, learn to let go and enjoy the moment for what it is. Sex is not a relationship. A relationship takes hard work, dedication and a willingness to compromise. We all have a choice, stand up for yourself and choose what you want and then fully engage in the moment for what it is.