State of Mind

Women talk about being used and taken advantage of by men.  As I pondered  more I  thought ‘being used’ is only a state of mind.  We always have control and a choice.  It is easy to blame the other person than to accept responsibility of our own actions.

We may not always make the best decision, but it is best to accept that you did wrong, learn from the experience and then move on.

When it comes to women and sex, learn to let go and enjoy the moment for what it is.  Sex is not a relationship.  A relationship takes hard work, dedication and a willingness to compromise.  We all have a choice, stand up for yourself and choose what you want and then fully engage in the moment for what it is.


One thought on “State of Mind

  1. Another insightful passage. No one can take advantage of anyone not willing to let it take place. Choices are always the result of a propostion. If a woman elects to “engage” she has committed to the event and has no one to chastise but herself, if she doesn’t like what took place. You’re right…everyone takes responsibility for their own actions.

    Instead of trying to “overanalyze” what life brings each day each person, man or woman, should learn to “live in the moment”; to enjoy what is happening that is glorious for the moment. For we never know when we will be “hit by the bus” of fate and be left only with regrets.

    You are so special and I admire you courage and ability to question the world and demand answers to questions others would be unable to even ask…

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