It was said to me that “Men prefer and enjoy romance and foreplay more as they age. It is similar to the wants and desires of a younger woman; thus the sexual compatibility. As women age their desires change and they prefer just raw, wild sex. This fits the desires of a younger man.”
What do you think?
Men begin there sexual journey at a young age simply lusting for the opportunity to be with an attractive female. The desire is straightforward – they hunger for the physical interaction. They may, on occasion, stumble onto someone they develop feelings for and then may spend more time with foreplay but never lose their desire for the raw, testosteronic interaction which becomes and remains their primary driver. But it’s two-part story for a man. First there’s ten times the hormonal push then women have for the sexual interaction coupled to the socialization that teaches men that being sexually prolific makes them a “man among men”, so to speak, and an element of pride.
Women are socialized in a different manner and more often then not conditioned to shy away from multiple partners and spontaneous sexual adventure. This very different socialization pathway only serves to confuse the 21st century woman who increasingly wants to express her sexuality and finds herself immersed in an internal conflict. The romance-before-sex and security-before-spontaneity teaching women receive incline them to seek more foreplay early on until they learn the secret to good sex – casting off the socialization and enjoying the unfiltered excitement that comes with the resulting liberation. The future should be interesting as both sexes realize that hot sex is spawned by this liberation from standardize societal rule sets and that becoming completely uninhibited not only makes for the best sex of their lives it brings the genders closer together, philosophically, making them more compatible. As for foreplay; it’s is a wonderful prelude to hot sex as long as one partner or the other doesn’t insist on it due to rule sets or the belief that foreplay is required to provide evidence that love is present; that would be a falacy.